Friday, November 12, 2010

Could it be?

Could it be that I've made a couple of very cool new friends in real life? Has Christmas come early this year?

I've had a couple of playdates recently with two other moms, whom also happen to have only children. The first one was nice but still a bit awkward, not unlike a first date, with the getting to know all about you deal. I kept thinking "Please don't let me say something stupid." and "I hope she likes me for me and not just because our kids are playing together.". Sounds stupid, huh?

The second playdate was with a different mom today. My son and her daughter are in the same class (apparently they're boyfriend and girlfriend already!). We chatted for two and a half hours about everything. The time just flew by. Before we knew it, the playdate was over.

How are these moms so cool? They're down to earth, friendly, not fussy about their appearance and sociable. The fact that they have only children also is a huge plus in my book. It's nice having a commonality.

We've been invited to a birthday party and many more playdates in the future as a result. I'd say those first time encounters are working out quite well already. Now, will she or won't she call me????

3 comments:

  1. Deb- that sounds so good! I hope things work out and you have a "second date".

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  2. LOL, totally sounds like "Mommy Dating". Just don;t let yourself get caught sitting anxiously by the phone! ;)

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  3. "Mommy Dating" I love it! It is so hard to make friends as we get older & yet, like you - I don't want to be your friend just because our kids play well together...

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